This was the 10th out of 11 times I have seen this provider. The instances have been from 2005 to the present, when I have been up in the Seattle area. If you call for massage or see her initially, I assume it would be best to avoid a very blunt sexual request. She is and considers herself to be a healing practitioner, but, for her, healing includes listening to and responding to "reasonable" client requests--re draping, re light touching, re teasing, re pulling a fingertip lightly down the gluteal cleft, re other similar things. She can be good and enjoyable both as a person and a massage practitioner, assuming that you as a customer are not requiring that each massage, or any given massage, be obviously and only sexual. On the other hand, it is OK to ask if she would use a finger to tease your gluteal cleft, if you ask gently, and that may result in more or other teasing. If you see her, you and she will have to determine what you both find "reasonable." A suggestion up front on the first visit that she blow you probably isn't (I am making a guess about her preference) and would probably result in her asking you to leave. As for making a hint of anything like that, after a few visits and establishing a friendship, that would depend on her comfort level and her mood that day. I can't predicting what her comfort level would be with a blunt request. If you see her, you'll have to find out on your own, with my suggestion that you are slow and gradual. And, beware that not respecting her skill or training to heal, if combined with a very blatantly sexual request, she may find offensive. The 11 visits have all been somewhat different, in terms of the degree they were erotic, and whether or not "therapeutic" work was done. All visits were done with myself undraped. All visits included a lot of light touching. Other than that, the different visits have or have not included different things: parting the legs, brushing the nipples, a brief teasing spank or two or three, etc. Some have resulted in my ejaculation; whether this was consciously intended by her or not is perhaps kept a mystery. Some visits did not result in my ejaculation. What is pretty clear is that my ejaculation is an OK result of the massage, not a cause of offense and may at times be mysteriously intended, or not. I may write the stories of the other 10 visits over the next few weeks. This particular visit was different from the others in the following ways: 1) she did some "therapeutic" work on my calves which were in need of that. This was the first time that I specifically asked her to do more "healing" work, for the first 15 minutes or so. 2) when I was face up, and near the end of the time, I asked if she would brush my balls. She teased me about which balls I meant and said that there were a number in the area, including some tennis balls and other balls, and then we settled on them being "my" balls; 3) there was no ejaculation this time; 4) I had requested 90 minutes, but Jan only did massage for about 70. She has migraines and said that they were beginning to afflict her. It was sad but OK that the massage was shorter than expected. Oh, note that whatever she does in the way or teasing or touching, she isn't expecting or asking for another large "tip" the size of the initially agreed upon payment. It is her gift, and if you are appreciative, she is happy.