If I was giving massages and a woman grabbed my crotch....would it bother me? Hmmmmmmmm....<scratches head>....lol. But I totally get your point. Lets face it.....many visitors to spas go there because they can't get anything anywhere else...because no one knows how to be a gentleman anymore. Personally...I go for the instant gratification and not having to deal with the bullshit that comes with a relationship. Like the man said....you don't pay a hooker to fuck you.....you pay her to leave. But I digress.
Sau has talked about this a few times before, and he's exactly right. While initially acting like a normal human might not pay dividends, if you're in it for the long haul, it is the best approach to getting what you want. Mongers wonder why they get shitty service accompanied with a crappy attitude....95% of the time it's their own fault. When you walk in, do you want the girl thinking "I remember him...he's fun...made me laugh"....or...."oh fuck...not THIS guy again". I can appreciate why some guys feel the need to "send the right message" by grabbing some butt-cheek.....I've done it...we all have. But there is a line there...and once you cross it with a provider....there's no going back. Granted, all of us might not get the same type of treatment that Sau gets, but you'd be surprised just how far a little decency, patience, and respect will get you.