Rick, I will be totally honest with you. I dont know. I will tell you one thing, you have to be able to talk to them, even if they dont speak good English. Body language is a key, and I know how to use that. I also dont act like I just got out of being in a Russian Gulag for the last 25 years and they are the first woman I have seen.
I always try to look nice. Always smile. Never grab them for a cheap thrill. Always tell them they look good, but do it in a way that is sincere, and not the way the other 10 guys that told them that, that day.
You have to go in confident, but show a little vulnerability. It makes them crazy for you, if you know how to balance the two. (Very few men can do this because of ego.) It shows them they will not walk on you because you are strong, but that they can work with you because you are able to be nice to them. They trust you very quickly this way.
A genuine laugh is always appreciated by everyone. Big toothy grin is always accepted by all in the world.
Many guys want to know where I get my info from. I will tell everyone, I get it from the top of the food chain to the bottom, and they will all share if you do what I just described. You have to be their friend though, and that takes time. Sometimes a long time.
Leo, Papasans, Mamasans, Working Girls, Hair Girls, Owners etc is where I get my info because they trust me. I cant, and wont ever give out the names of these people because I told them I wouldnt, but I will share some of the info here because I feel it info that everyone could use.
If anyone disagrees with this, thats cool, but right now I have 5 Massage girls from 5 different spas giving me freebies at their homes or free at the spas with the approval of the boss, and there is not enough time to handle this. What a problem!
I am not telling this because I like to brag, I dont have to, but I am trying to give everyone an Idea of the possibilities out there if you have some game.
If anyone thinks I am lying, I have guys here who contact me via private mail and I give them info. If they say I am lying, then you will know not to believe this. I dont think that will happen.
One other thing Rick. You have to stop telling the owners what you see and read on the Net. You have a reputation as a big mouth with these bosses, and they dont like that. They in turn tell the girls to be careful with you about the activities with you. They will not trust you after a boss tells them anything negative. I am not trying to be mean in any way, but you have to shut up.