This is not about me.
It will be interesting to see who can give their views on this. NO NAMES OF GIRLS PLEASE.
I know a guy who has/had a very good, very special relationship with a girl who is a manager for a spa. He helped her in every conceivable way, socially, technically, and business wise. They are very close and shared many things personal and private. She would call him for meals and he would take her for a ride if she needs to go anywhere and he would oblige when possible. He thought he was very close to closing the deal with her phyically, but didnt want to maybe mess things up by going that extra mile (or inches) with her. He knows more about her then anyone in town. He is totally respectful of her. He also gets a lot of pussy from others at other spas so he not considered a loser by any of these other girls.
She depends on him for most everything outside of the spa.
He even invited her to take trips with him out of town, but she always said that she was "Too Busy" and it would hurt the spa if she left even for a day.
Well, guess what? You got it!
She left town last weekend with another guy for a long weekend and he never even knew about it. She completly lied to him about her not having a BF. He never had a clue!
If this is a guy from here that she went away with, congrats on cracking a tough cookie.
I would love to hear details of the tryst if possible, but only with guys who have my private e-mail.
Why dont you guys finish this with your own moral of the story...
Here is mine...
Never, ever trust a massage girl. ESPECIALLY ASIAN massage girls.
Their culture is one of lying and deception when in this business.
I have even asked my own Chinese friends, male and female, about why Asian girls are like this, and he said it is the culture.
That is a cold statement, but I have been a part, and have seen others who can relate to it.
I was burned in a similar manner by a girl years ago and it fucking stings boy. All the phone calls, the "I love you" several times a week, etc etc etc, only to find out that she is banging other guys or whatever, outside of your "Closed Relationship" with her. The ego gets hit hard, and they, the girls, are none the worse for your pain that they inflict on you. I think that is why I get along so well now with them, as I can relate to who, and what they are. I never trust them so I can be myself and dont play games with them.
Anyway, what do you guys think?